What do your clothes say about you?

Today we are going to touch upon a pressing topic that is often neglected under the pretext that formal dress and conformity to authority is outdated. 

Think of a time when you were impressed by the good (perhaps even flawless) appearance of a woman or man at school, at the bank, at university or elsewhere. Surely all of us have such a memory.

Looking good, appropriate to the occasion and the place you are at shows effort and excellent self-care.

When you love someone or something (yourself included), you probably take good care of their condition. The body is our outer shell and it immediately shows how much we love ourselves through the care we take of it. Bearing in mind that the body is not the only thing we need to take care of.

The purpose of this article is to give you confidence and guide you to the proper dress etiquette that is expected with certain institutions.

University

Casual attire at university should be smart. No one expects us to wear a tuxedo to lectures, but it is certainly good to have a neat and tidy appearance and relatively comfortable clothing. A good choice is an ironed t-shirt, shirt, blouse or polo combined with trousers, jeans or skirt. Footwear should be appropriate for the season. 

Formal attire at university is for occasions such as presentations, events, seminars, and internships. We are then expected to be dressed smart. For example, you may choose a formal dress, shirt, and trousers, formal shoes and a coat (in winter).  

❌ Avoid pants or skirts that are too short (above the knee), jeans that are too tight, unkempt hair, short tops/sweatshirts, clothes that are too tight or too formal (ball attire). 

Church (Temple)

The church and any other temple is a place of respect for God and faith, a place of humility, spiritual rest and peace.

Casual attire in church must cover the shoulders and knees (of both men and women). A high neckline is always a good idea. Respect for God and faith are key when attending church. Both your behavior and dress should reflect this attitude. You can always bring a headscarf or ask a church official for one to cover your shoulders and knees. 

During a celebration or event such as a baptism or wedding, it is especially important to observe the same respectful dress code. Of course, you can tailor the colors and design to your taste.

❌Avoid plunging necklines, shorts, or skirts above the knee, flip-flops, bare shoulders, short tops and tank tops, cut jeans. 

Networking/formal event

During a networking or formal event (exhibition, opera, concert, training, etc.) you present yourself as a professional or an individual. It is a good idea to consider what image of yourself you want to show to others, and your clothes will reflect this. It is always best to stick to formal clothing, with an appropriate cut for your body type. Go for a classic look and add a touch of colour or  originality in your accessories (if that's to your taste).

❌ Avoid provocative, tight, and revealing clothes.

In a world where first impressions often last forever, the way we dress is our business card. It's not about expensive clothes or following trends — it's about respect: for ourselves, for others, and for the place we are in.

As the saying goes, “Dress the way you want to be addressed.”

Let our clothing reflect personal maturity, attention to detail, and self-respect — because it speaks on our behalf long before we ever say a word.

Author - Teodora Maude